Friday, August 29, 2014

How to look sexy without looking trashy

Here at BraveGirl, we are all about looking the classy type of sexy. There's enough summer left that showing skin strategically is a relevant topic. It's all about showing off what you've got without showing it all.

I found an article from instyle.com that gives fifty tips on how to do just that. It gives us fifty tips - I'm going to post the first 10 and give the link for the rest. I'd be interested to see what everybody thinks, please leave comments and let's open the discussion.

The 50 Best Fashion tips of all time:

1. Show Skin Strategically

Looking truly sexy involves knowing what to bare—and what to keep under wraps. Otherwise, where's the mystery? "Choose one—only one—body part and show it off," advises Jen Rade, stylist to Jenna Fischer and Angelina Jolie. "If it's cleavage, don't show your legs. If it's your legs, stay covered on top."


2. Round Up White Button-Downs

They elevate jeans and keep ball skirts from drifting into fantasy-land. But all that mileage comes at a cost: a short shelf life. So buy three, don't overbleach (which can cause yellowing), and refresh regularly.

3. Accessorize in Brights

If you've got a closet full of neutrals—be they navy, black, camel, or gray—add energy with boldly hued shoes and bags. Not only is a hunter green satchel more lively than ho-hum black, but it's also surprisingly versatile. Feeling really brave? Wear a neutral base with shoes and a bag in two different complementary colors.

 

4. Think in Multiples

Take a cue from Jackie O, who had a closet full of sheath dresses. If you find an especially flattering fit right off the rack, go ahead and buy doubles. When it works, why question it?
 

Buy The Shoes


Thursday, August 28, 2014

Hello readers!

We hope that that you're gearing up for a happy and safe holiday weekend. While you enjoy the lake and your family or whatever your plans are - please remember to stay healthy and safe.

Today's health tip is about how to get more sleep. You would think that it would be a no brainer right? Of course we'd all like more sleep. But here's an article with tips on how to get better sleep.

Top 10 Better Sleep Strategies: Great Ways to End Your Day

Originally published June 15, 2007. Updated June 19, 2014.

Sleep is a valuable and restorative resource that’s vital to wellbeing and stress management, but can sometimes be hard to come by for the busy and stressed. (According to a recent poll on this site, for example, about half of you are getting 6 hours of sleep or less, and are in dire need of more and better sleep!) Here are some effective nighttime habits to get into, to help enhance the amount and quality of sleep you get!
Woman relaxing in bathtub - Dana Hoff/Photographer's Choice RF/Getty Images
Dana Hoff/Photographer's Choice RF/Getty Images

1. Try Light Exercise

Exercise has so many stress management and health benefits, and for many of us, nighttime is when it best fits our schedules. Light exercise like yoga or walking at night can also help sleep as it releases tension without overstimulating the body. (It’s debatable whether or not exercise right before bed disrupts sleep; according to sports medicine expert Elizabeth Quinn, it could actually improve sleep

2. Listen to Music

Music can soothe your mind and body to the point that it’s now being used as a therapeutic tool by some. You can use music to your benefit by playing relaxing tunes before bed, and throughout the evening to help you wind down and release tension as bedtime approaches. These are some of my favorite picks. More »

3. Clean Up

A recent poll on this site found that close to 80% of you live with a level of clutter that can cause additional stress. Cleaning up at the end of the day can leave you feeling less stressed because you’re doing something to tackle the problem, and the anticipation of waking up to a cleaner house can make your rest more peaceful. 

4. Quiet Games Instead of T.V.

While many people like to zone out in front of the T.V. before bed, playing low-key computer games can be a refreshing alternative. They can create a nice distraction from the stress of the day and be a great way of ‘shifting gears’, but aren’t so exciting that they make sleep elusive. These games can also sharpen your mental abilities and help you learn new skills: The Stress Relief Memory Game and The Stress Management Word Game. Find other games and fun stuff in the Fun and Games Section

5. Bubble Bath

Soaking in a tub of bubbles can rinse away tension and leave your body pampered and your mind free. It’s also a great segue to sleep, as any parent of a small child can attest. Read more about the importance of self care, and find tips on how to create a soothing home spa experience

6. Massage

Massage is a great stress reliever that also feels good. If you can’t trade massages with people you live with, you can do a self-massage or use massaging tools to relieve tension. Either way, having a massage before bed can loosen stress in your body, relax you, and make sleep come more easily. 

7. Journaling

Journaling has many stress and health benefits, making it a great way to end the day. Writing in a journal before bed can clear your mind, help you process emotions, solve problems, mentally prepare for the next day, make plans, and get your thoughts out of your head and on the page, where they can be picked up the next morning. A gratitude journal can get you in a positive frame of mind for sleep, and over time helps you change your whole frame of mind to a more positive, less stressed one. 

8. Meditation

Meditation has been used by many, many people to relieve stress in the body and mind. It’s a great technique to use before bedtime because it segues so naturally into sleep: it relaxes the body, clears the mind, and creates inner peace. Be patient with yourself and follow these tips for beginners, and you should find meditation to be a great stress management tool. More »

9. Sex

For those in a committed relationship, sex is known as a great nighttime stress reliever for a reason! Not only does a healthy sex life enhance your relationship, but it relaxes your body, releases ‘happy’ chemicals, and even promotes wellness. And, of course, it welcomes sleep. 

10. Avoid These:

Some activities can be too stimulating at night and can make it harder to fall asleep, or make your sleep less restful. For a restorative night’s sleep, you should avoid caffeine after 2 p.m., interpersonal conflict or stressful conversations, or anything else that’s overstimulating. (Dealing with finances or even certain T.V. shows can be overstimulating to some.) Everyone’s different, so try to pay attention to your internal states, and respond accordingly.

Friday, August 22, 2014

How's everybody's Friday going? We here at BraveGirl Publishing figure that there should probably be some writing - related things on the blog so here you go. Your weekly dose of writerly goodness (if that isn't a word - it is now).

This week's advice is on how to get reviews on Amazon without having to offer to twerk for them. The article comes straight from Amazon. It's rather long so I'm going to post the first part of it and then post the link for the article. 

Get your book reviewed on Amazon and boost your sales


When Keith Donohue’s novel "The Stolen Child" came out, the critics weren’t impressed, even though his publisher was Nan Talese at Doubleday. In fact, not a single major newspaper reviewed the book. Ask any big publisher, and they’ll tell you: A novel stiffed by the critics has no chance of becoming a bestseller.

But the story wasn’t over. A review copy ended up in the hands of Linda Porco, Amazon.com’s merchandising director. She passed it around in the office and everyone loved it. So Porco tried something new. She got more copies of the book and mailed them to Amazon’s most active customer reviewers, the ones who review books on the site as a hobby, assigning five stars to books they love and one star to books they hate, and providing essays explaining why.

Within weeks, all but one of those Amazon Top Reviewers posted a rave review. Promptly, Stolen Child became Amazon’s bestselling fiction book, and it reached No. 26 on the New York Times extended bestseller list, an unbelievable climb for a novel with no big newspaper or trade reviews. Now the book is in its eighth printing and the story is being shopped to Hollywood. And -— oh yeah —- now Stolen Child has plenty of professional reviews.

All this caused quite a stir in publishing circles, but it didn’t surprise the folks who actually buy books. Increasingly, readers turn to online reviews written by peers to find out if a book is worth buying.

Critics argue that amateurs’ reviews are meaningless, that they don’t apply the professional critics’ intellectual rigor. But whatever the amateur reviewers do or don’t lack in highbrow sensibilities, they make up for in credibility and relevancy.

Good reviews on Amazon are particularly crucial for books by new authors and for niche books, and it stands to reason that they boost sales not only at that site but everywhere people are buying books, although we don’t yet know what percentage of buyers at brick-and-mortar bookstores made their choice by reading Amazon customer reviews.

HOW TO REACH AMAZON REVIEWERS

Traditional book marketing strategies call for mailing hundreds of copies to reviewers at magazines and newspapers. But for a new author and/or a niche book, chasing print reviews can be little more than a distraction. A better way to launch your campaign is by identifying and contacting 100 to 300 potential online reviewers and sending a copy of your book to each respondent who expresses willingness to look at it and perhaps post an honest critique.

If you spend two or three days contacting about 300 potential Amazon reviewers, you can expect to receive about 40 to 50 responses, and wind up with perhaps 35 reviews, a quite satisfactory result.

(Author's note: Recently Amazon seems to be restricting communications between authors and readers, and not all Amazon Friends invitations have been going through. Whether this is a policy change by Amazon or simply a glitch isn't known.) 4/13/2009

How to get your book reviewed - Amazon.com

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Here at BraveGirl, we appreciate and celebrate young women that break barriers and show the boys how it's done. Today we would like to celebrate 13 year old, Mo'ne Davis who is pitching in the Little League World Series. The BraveGirl staff would like to extend a huge "You go girl!"

Here is the article written about here in Health magazine about her:

Get Inspired By This Ace Little League Pitcher—a 13-Year-Old Girl

If you spent any of your formative years on a playground, at some point you probably heard someone utter the totally sexist and derogatory phrase: “You throw like a girl!” Well, thanks to 13-year-old Mo’ne Davis, that phrase may be taking on a new and much more positive meaning.
Davis is a pitcher for Philadelphia’s Taney Dragons, and is currently playing in the Little League World Series (LLWS). This phenom—who is one of only two girls in this year’s series—can not only throw a 70 mph fastball (whoa!), but this past Friday, she pitched a shutout. Did we mention she is the only girl to do so in the 67-year history of the event? She’s kind of a big deal.
And that has not been lost on the world. In fact, folks such as rapper Lil Wayne, Los Angeles Angels outfielderMike TroutMagic Johnson, and countless of young girls have taken to Twitter to sing her well-deserved praises.
But even as the spotlight shines brightly on her, she still understands the importance of her teammates. “I don’t really like all of the attention,” she said in an interview with Karl Ravech on espnW.com. “It just feels like everything is about me and they don’t see the whole picture of my teammates, and without my teammates, I don’t think we’d be here right now.”
Talented and modest, what more could we ask for? Simply put, Davis is an inspiration to women of all ages. She is living proof that the sky is the limit, no matter how old you are. The best part: She’s still got plenty of time left on that baseball diamond—and I can’t wait to see what she does next.
Here's the link to this article and several others about this BraveGirl:

Get Inspired By This Ace Little League Pitcher - Health Magazine
Mo'ne Davis Takes Little League World Series Stardom in Stride - New York Times